Ethel M. Abbey
Home Up Douglas Arthur Jacks




John Douglas Jacks was born October 17, 1893, in Denver, CO, and died March 20, 1976, in Lemon Grove/San Diego, San Diego Co., CA, at age 82. He was the son of Joseph H. Jacks of English Canada and Helena Unknown of English Canada.

Ethel M. Abbey was born January 28, 1897, in Belleville, Freedom Twp., Republic Co., KS, and died May 18, 1945, in San Diego, San Diego Co., CA, at age 47. She was the daughter of Orrin Abbey of Port Hope, Durham Co., Canada West, and Adella "Della" Corey of Randolph Twp., Crawford Co., PA.

John Douglas Jacks and Ethel M. Abbey were married about 1916 in California.

John Douglas Jacks and Ethel M. (Abbey) Jacks had two natural children and one adopted daughter:

  1. Douglas Arthur "Doug" Jacks: Born April 8, 1918, in San Diego, CA; Died July 28, 1944, near Granville, France, in WWII (age 26). Enlisted as unmarried on August 4, 1941, at Los Angeles, CA, for 3 years. Had 2 years of college. San Diego High School Class of 1936. Was piloting a P-51A on August 22, 1943, at Zephyrhills AAF, FL, when he had a mid-air collision with a bird. Was a 1st Lieutenant when he was killed in WWII. Married February 1944 in Pasco Co., FL, to Mary Alice Young: Born April 25, 1924, in Dade City, Pasco Co., FL; Living. Mary Alice (Young) Jacks then married Victor Sheldon "Vic" Smith: Born July 22, 1925, in Clearwater, FL; Died March 8, 2005, at Sunbelt Health Care Center, Zephyrhills, Pasco Co., FL (age 79). Married February 28, 1949, in Folkston, GA. Victor and his first wife, Melva Rose Schneider, were both married and divorced 1948 in Marion Co., FL.
  2. Thelma A. Jacks: Born December 16, 1921, in San Diego Co., CA; Died December 7, 1925, in Chula Vista, San Diego Co., CA (age 4).
  3. Marie Eleanor (Unknown) Jacks: Born November 28, 1923, in San Diego, CA, or in Denmark; Died December 14, 2009, at an assisted living facility in Lemon Grove, San Diego Co., CA (age 86). Was adopted in San Diego, San Diego Co., CA. Never married.

John Douglas Jacks then married Alice M. Unknown about 1946. Born September 18, 1901, in Massachusetts; Died October 8, 1962, in San Diego Co., CA (age 61). Lived in Arcadia, Los Angeles Co., CA, in 1948 - 1952.




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Douglas Arthur Jacks

1Lt. Douglas Arthur Jacks was first reported missing on July 28, 1944, after a strafing mission near Granville, France. He had completed more than 70 missions in the 15th Fighter Group flying a P-47 and received several decorations. A San Diego native, Douglas, age 26 and married, graduated from San Diego High School in June 1936 and had attended San Diego State. He was working as a telephone company employee when he joined the military in August 4,  1941, in Los Angeles, CA. Repatriation funeral services was held for him at Benbough Mortuary on November 22, 1948.


John Douglas Jacks was born October 17, 1893, in Denver, CO.

Orrin Abbey then married a widow, Margaret Ann (Kneale) Garrett, on January 25, 1894.

Ethel M. Abbey was born January 28, 1897 in Kansas.

The 1900 U. S. Census taken on June 19, 1900 shows Orrin Abbey (age 54) born April 1846 in English Canada to English Canadian-born parents and having emigrated in 1852 is a Farmer owning his farm free of a mortgage and living in Freedom Twp., Republic Co., KS. Living with him is his wife of six years, Maggie A. Abbey (age 43) born February 1857 in England to English-born parents and having emigrated in 1892, with all 3 of the children born to her still alive. Also living there are his two daughters, both born in Kansas to English Canadian and English-born parents: Mary E. Abbey (age 5) born November 1894; and Ethyl M. Abbey (age 3) born January 1897. Also living there is his stepson: Fred K. Garrett (age 12) born April 1888 in England to English-born parents and having emigrated in 1892.

The 1900 U. S. Census taken on June 1, 1900 shows Frank B. Johnson (age 41) born March 1859 in Illinois to Connecticut-born parents is a Conductor owning his own home with a mortgage and living at 617 Logan Avenue, 9th Ward, City of San Diego, San Diego Co., CA. Living with him is his wife of 16 years, Elta Johnson (age 36) born in Wisconsin to New York-born parents, with 1 of the 2 children born to her still alive. Also living there is his son: Forest Johnson (age 10) born October 1889 in California to Illinois and Wisconsin-born parents. Also living there is his unmarried cousin: Eunice Abbey (age 20) born June 1879 in Nebraska to English Canadian and Wisconsin-born parents, who is a School Teacher.

The 1900 U. S. Census taken on June 12, 1900 shows Joseph H. Jacks (age 39) born March 1861 in English Canada to English Canadian and Scottish-born parents and having emigrated in 1890 and a Naturalized citizen is a Lawyer renting his own home and is living at 134 Alarcon Street, Prescott, Yavapai Co., Arizona Territory. Living with him is his wife of 6 years, Helena Jacks (age 29) born February 1871 in English Canada to English Canadian-born parents and having emigrated in 1892, with 1 of the 2 children born to her still alive. Also living there is  his son, Douglas Jacks (age 5) born October 1894 in Colorado to English Canadian-born parents.

Orrin Abbey died October 5, 1905, in Artesia, Eddy Co., NM, at age 59. See Probate Record at Eddy County Clerks Office in Carlsbad, NM. Belleville, Republic Co., KS for Last Will & Testament.

Maggie Abbey eventually moved to San Diego, CA.

The 1910 U. S. Census taken on April 28, 1910 shows Margaret A. Abbey (age 53) born in England to English-born parents with all 4 of the children born to her still alive is a widowed Head of Household owning her own home free of a mortgage and living at 3924 University Boulevard, 1st Ward, City of San Diego, San Diego Co., CA. Living with her is her five unmarried children: Eunice A. Abbey (age 30) born in Nebraska to English Canadian and English-born parents, who is a Clerk in the Post Office; Fred K. Garrett (age 22) born in England to English Canadian and English-born parents, who is a Home Carpenter; Mary E. Abbey (age 15) born in Kansas to English Canadian and English-born parents; Ethel M. Abbey (age 13) born in Kansas to English Canadian and English-born parents; and Lucy M. Abbey (age 9) born in Kansas to English Canadian and English-born parents.

John and Ethel were married about 1916 in California.

The WWI Draft Registration Report taken on June 5, 1917 shows John Douglas Jacks (age 24) is an Office Manager for the Armour Company and is living at 212 S. High, Albuquerque, NM. He has his wife and his mother to support.

The 1920 U. S. Census taken on January 2, 1920 shows Maggie Abbey is a head of household widow living in San Diego, San Diego Co., CA. Living with her were her son Fred K. Garrett (divorced, a ship carpenter), daughter Mary E. Bunker (married, a seamstress born in Kansas), and grandsons Kenneth Bunker (age 7) and Robert O. Bunker (age 4). Both grandsons born in California.

Thelma A. Jacks was born December 16, 1921 in San Diego Co., CA, with mother's maiden name of Abbey.

Marie E. Jacks was born November 28, 1923 in San Diego Co., CA, with mother's maiden name of Abbey.

The 1930 U. S. Census taken on April 12, 1930 shows John D. Jacks (age 35) born in Colorado to English Canadian-born parents and first married at age 22 is an Accountant at a Lumber Yard owning his own home valued at $7,500 and is living at 2440 Adams Street, City of San Diego, San Diego Twp., San Diego Co., CA. Living with him is his wife, Ethel M. Jacks (age 33) born in Kansas to English Canadian and English-born parents and first married at age 20, who is an Apartment Court Land Lady. Also living there are his son and adopted daughter, both born in California: Douglas A. Jacks (age 12) born to Colorado and Kansas-born parents; and Marie E. Jacks (age 6) born to United Sates-born parents.

The 1930 U. S. Census taken on April 8, 1930 shows Margaret Abbey (age 73) is a widow born in England to England-born parents is living alone in her own home valued at $7,500 at 1740 Meade Avenue, San Diego, San Diego Co., CA. She does not own a radio.

The 1930 U. S. Census taken on April 12, 1930 shows John D. Jacks (age 35) born in Colorado to English Canadian-born parents and first married at age 22 is a Lumber Yard Accountant owning his own apartment house worth $7,500 and living at 2448 Adams Street, City of San Diego, San Diego Twp., San Diego Co., CA. Living with him is his wife, Ethel M. Jacks (age 33) born in Kansas to English Canadian and English-born parents and first married at age 20 is a Land Lady at an Apartment Court. Also living in the household are his children: Douglas A. Jacks (age 12) born in California to Colorado and Kansas-born parents; and adopted daughter, Marie E. Jacks (age 6) born in California to United States-born parents.

Marie Jacks was in the Class of 1938 at Theodore Roosevelt Junior High School, Long Beach, CA, and graduated from San Diego High School in 1941.

Margaret Ann (Kneale) (Garrett) Abbey died February 10, 1947, in San Diego, San Diego Co., CA, at age 89.

Ethel M. Abbey  was born January 28, 1897, in Kansas and died May 18, 1945, in San Diego, San Diego Co., CA, at age 47.

John Douglas Jacks died March 20, 1976, in San Diego, San Diego Co., CA, at age 82.

Marie Eleanor (Unknown) Jacks died December 14, 2009, at an assisted living facility in Lemon Grove, San Diego Co., CA, at age 86.

 


The San Diego Union-Tribune, San Diego, CA, January 16, 2010

Marie E. Jacks

In the days when women in sports were a rarity, Marie E. Jacks was a trailblazer. Ms. Jacks was one of San Diego's most prestigious local athletes, one of only 49 women to be named a master professional life member of the Ladies Professional Golf Association in the organization's 60-year history. "She was truly one of the most energetic people I have ever known," said Randall Reed, 45, a longtime family friend who knew her as "Aunt Marie" since childhood. "It was just her ability to conquer whatever she wanted to do." Ms. Jacks was a professional golf teacher, a teacher and counselor with the Sweetwater Union High School District for more than 20 years, a longtime participant in Campfire Girls and an early member of Las Primeras, a philanthropic organization serving the Children's Home Society in San Diego. Ms. Jacks, who lived in Alpine, died Dec. 14 at an assisted living facility in Lemon Grove after battling cancer and Alzheimer's disease. She was 86. Born Nov. 28, 1923, Ms. Jacks was known as Baby Marie at the Children's Home Society orphanage before she was adopted, according to a three-page autobiography she wrote in the 1990s. At 14, she learned she was adopted; later in life, she learned that she had been the youngest of 10 siblings, some of whom had been put up for adoption after her biological mother died, and that she was of Danish descent. She was never married. She graduated from San Diego High School in 1941. A tall girl, she had already begun playing tennis by then. She briefly attended what was then San Diego State College, but her family was unable to pay for college so she spent the next few years working at a post office and, according to her notes, at Consolidated Aircraft. She finally saved enough money to enroll at the University of Arizona in 1944. Ms. Jacks became an athletic star there, excelling in golf, tennis and archery before her graduation in 1948, according to the university's athletic department. She returned briefly to San Diego after graduation before being offered a job as executive director of the Campfire Girls in Yuma. She was an executive with the organization in Arizona for six years, and remained in leadership positions with Campfire Girls in San Diego and Arizona throughout her life. Ms. Jacks' big break in golf came in 1954, when she was offered a job as an assistant golf pro at the San Diego Country Club. She joined the LPGA's teaching division in 1955, and taught full-time at the country club until 1957. She continued teaching part-time as a golf pro for decades, Reed said. "She was a great teacher and she had a great sense of humor," said Marilynn Smith, 80, of Phoenix, a fellow golf professional and founding LPGA member. "She loved to teach." In 1957, she turned her love for teaching into a job with the Sweetwater School District, initially teaching physical education at National City Junior High. Two years later she took a job as a counselor at Hilltop Junior High, where she spent most of her career until she retired in 1979, according to the school district. She obtained a graduate degree and counseling credential at San Diego State, according to her autobiography. Along with Ms. Jacks' love of sports and teaching came a general love of life, friends say. In addition to traveling around Europe, she also traveled to Africa on safari and extensively in the United States, Reed said. She made several trips to Denmark after learning that her biological father had been Danish; during one trip four years ago, she was the subject of a feature story in a Danish newspaper. "She would tell me, 'I'm going to go here, I'm going to go there,' " said Smith, whose still has a saguaro cactus outside her home that Jacks helped her plant during a trip to Arizona. "She was always loving to travel." Ms. Jacks made frequent trips to Arizona to visit her alma mater — she was known to always make it back for homecoming, according to the university — and several close friends. Jacks was also a lover of classical music and opera. One friend recalled her San Diego Opera season-ticket seats being in a location that was perfect for a woman who friends say was close to 6 feet tall. "She was a very tall woman, and she had these wonderful seats that were at the very back of the orchestra where there was no one behind her," said Janet Evans, 68, a longtime friend and a member, with her husband, of the University of Arizona Alumni Association. Reed, the executor of her estate, said she left a generous gift to the university. "She was adventurous, giving, just an amazing woman," Reed said. A celebration of her life will be held today at 2 p.m. at the San Diego Country Club, 88 L Street in Chula Vista. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to Campfire USA San Diego and Imperial Counties Council, PO Box 3275, San Diego, CA. 92163.


The San Diego Union-Tribune, San Diego, CA, January 14, 2010

JACKS, MARIE E.

Nov. 28, 1923 to Dec. 14, 2009

On Monday, December 14, 2009, Marie Jacks passed away peacefully in her sleep. She was 86 years old. Marie was a natural athlete, excelling at the highest levels in both tennis and golf. She had a 50 year career as a teaching professional in the LPGA, and was the San Diego County tennis champion in 1940 and 1942. However, it was her ability to influence a generation of San Diego County's youth that made her most proud. During her 22-year career as a teacher and counselor in the Sweetwater School District, she helped guide the academic lives of thousands of San Diego's children. She also will be remembered for her lifelong involvement with Campfire USA and other youth organizations. Marie's professional career in golf began in 1954 as Assistant Pro at the San Diego Country Club where she taught golf full- time until 1957. She continued to teach golf on weekends and in the summers for another 45 years, both at the Chula Vista course and later at Whispering Palms in Rancho Santa Fe. The two major highlights of her athletic career were her election to the University of Arizona Sports Hall of Fame and her obtaining the ranking of Master Life Professional in the LPGA, a status enjoyed by only 51 lady golf pros. Marie held deep ties to the University of Arizona where she graduated with a business degree and a minor in physical education. She attended U of A from 1944 to 1948 where she became one of the school's most renowned female athletes. While at the University of Arizona, Ms. Jacks was a member of the Chi Omega sorority where she made many lifelong friends. Following her graduation, Ms. Jacks spent six years as the Executive Director of Campfire Girls in Yuma and Phoenix and she remained an active volunteer for Campfire USA throughout her life. She was also active in the community as a patron member of Las Primeras and she served in a volunteer capacity for many organizations throughout the San Diego community including the San Diego County Junior Golf Association. A Celebration of Life service will be held at The San Diego Country Club in Chula Vista, CA on Saturday, January 16, 2010, at 2:00 p.m. The club is located at 88 L Street, Chula Vista, CA 91911. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to Campfire USA San Diego and Imperial Counties Council, PO Box 3275, San Diego, CA 92163-1275. Donations may also be made to the San Diego Hospice Foundation, 4311 Third Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103.


Victor "Vic" Smith

SMITH, Victor "Vic", 79, of Dade City, died Tuesday, March 8, 2005 at Sunbelt Health Care Center in Zephyrhills. Born July 22, 1925 in Clearwater, he was the son of Joseph Perkins Smith and Norma Devaneau Smith. He served in the military from 1943 until 1963 with the 8th Airforce Bomber Wing and participated in the D-Day invasion. After retiring from the military, he taught in the Pasco County School System from 1964 until 1980. He was a Dade City Citrus Grower from 1959 to the present. He was preceded in death by his parents and brothers, Anson, Gregory, Clifford and Robert. Survivors include his wife of 55 years, Mary Young Smith; a daughter, Vicki Bucy and her husband, Rick of Auburndale; a sister-in-law, June Farmer and her husband, Ray of Dade City; a brother-in-law, HC Young, Jr. of Dade City; and numerous nieces and nephews. The family received friends from 6-8:00 p.m. on Thursday, March 10, 2005 at the funeral home. Funeral services were held in the chapel of Hodges Family Funeral Home on Friday, March 11, 2005 at 11:00 a.m. with Pastor David West officiating. Burial followed at Dade City Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to Hernando-Pasco Hospice, 7066 Fort King Road, Zephyrhills, FL 33541.